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Dan Savage

Dan Savage has written the sex-advice column Savage Love since 1991.

Gonorrhea Is Ruining Group Sex Parties for Me and My BF

Plus a Q about the other F-word in this week's Savage Love.

April 13, 2022

Why Do Sex and Masturbation Hurt For Me?

Plus breakup nudges and ludicrous excuses in this week's Savage Love.

April 6, 2022

My BF and I Have Not Had Sex for 2+ Years

Plus a whole mess of quickie Qs in this week's Savage Love.

March 23, 2022

I’m Far Too Tight For My Much Younger Lover

Plus two more age-centric Qs in this week's Savage Love.

March 16, 2022

I Lost My Lover, But I Didn’t Lose Our Old Sexts…

Plus unsatisfied desires and getting kinky with strangers in this week's Savage Love.

March 9, 2022

Jealousy is Wrecking My Queer, Polyamorous Paradise

Plus how to tell your parents you're in a leather daddy threesome and why you shouldn't visit a strip club if you're going to be weird about it.

March 2, 2022

How Can I Be a Good Gay Uncle to My Gay Teen Nephew?

Plus banjos vs. harmonicas and yet another open relationship Q in this week's Savage Love.

February 23, 2022

How Do I Convince the Asexual Love of My Life to Love Me?

Plus a whole mess o' quickie Qs in this week's Savage Love.

February 16, 2022

We’ve Been Assured This Savage Love Question Is Not Fake…

Just the one wild, definitely-not-fake Q in this week's Savage Love.

February 9, 2022