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Dan Savage

Dan Savage has written the sex-advice column Savage Love since 1991.

My Bi Husband Secretly Got the Monkeypox Vaccine—Is He Cheating?

Dan prepares to sign off from Racket (and all other syndicating outlets) in this week's Savage Love.

November 2, 2022

Help! Can I Be Both Homosexual and Asexual?

Lotta quickie Qs in this, one of the last Savage Loves to appear in the esteemed pages of Racket.

October 26, 2022

Are My ‘Massive, Mind-Blowing’ Orgasms Killing Me?

Plus more puzzling poly talk in this week's Savage Love.

October 19, 2022

How, Exactly, Do I Ease My Partner Into D/s Play?

Plus talkin' pre-gasms in this week's Savage Love.

October 12, 2022

I’m Black and Queer and I’m Struggling

Plus a reminder that it's rude to take photographs of strangers in public in this week's Savage Love.

October 5, 2022

I’m a Lot More ‘Ethically Non-Monogamous’ Than My Wife

Plus a guy who just wants to get his cock sucked in this week's Savage Love.

September 28, 2022

I Ask My Constantly Naked Husband to Avoid Windows. He Says That’s Body-Shaming.

Plus a whole mess o' quickie sex Qs in this week's Savage Love.

September 21, 2022

Are Straight Buddies Really Out There Sexting Each Other?

Or is that just a cheater's excuse? Find out in this week's Savage Love.

September 14, 2022

I’m a Small-Town Teacher. Where Can I Find Noncommittal Oral Pleasure?

A liberal teacher seeks a specific partner in this week's Savage Love.

September 7, 2022