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Dan Savage

Dan Savage has written the sex-advice column Savage Love since 1991.

My Bi Husband Secretly Got the Monkeypox Vaccineā€”Is He Cheating?

Dan prepares to sign off from Racket (and all other syndicating outlets) in this week's Savage Love.

November 2, 2022

Are My ā€˜Massive, Mind-Blowingā€™ Orgasms Killing Me?

Plus more puzzling poly talk in this week's Savage Love.

October 19, 2022

How, Exactly, Do I Ease My Partner Into D/s Play?

Plus talkin' pre-gasms in this week's Savage Love.

October 12, 2022

Iā€™m Black and Queer and Iā€™m Struggling

Plus a reminder that it's rude to take photographs of strangers in public in this week's Savage Love.

October 5, 2022

Iā€™m a Lot More ā€˜Ethically Non-Monogamousā€™ Than My Wife

Plus a guy who just wants to get his cock sucked in this week's Savage Love.

September 28, 2022

I Ask My Constantly Naked Husband to Avoid Windows. He Says Thatā€™s Body-Shaming.

Plus a whole mess o' quickie sex Qs in this week's Savage Love.

September 21, 2022

Are Straight Buddies Really Out There Sexting Each Other?

Or is that just a cheater's excuse? Find out in this week's Savage Love.

September 14, 2022

Iā€™m a Small-Town Teacher. Where Can I Find Noncommittal Oral Pleasure?

A liberal teacher seeks a specific partner in this week's Savage Love.

September 7, 2022