Dan Savage

Dan Savage has written the sex-advice column Savage Love since 1991.
The Last-Ever Savage Love to Appear In the Hallowed Pages of Racket
And it's a repeat?!
My Bi Husband Secretly Got the Monkeypox VaccineāIs He Cheating?
Dan prepares to sign off from Racket (and all other syndicating outlets) in this week's Savage Love.
November 2, 2022
Help! Can I Be Both Homosexual and Asexual?
Lotta quickie Qs in this, one of the last Savage Loves to appear in the esteemed pages of Racket.
October 26, 2022
Are My āMassive, Mind-Blowingā Orgasms Killing Me?
Plus more puzzling poly talk in this week's Savage Love.
October 19, 2022
How, Exactly, Do I Ease My Partner Into D/s Play?
Plus talkin' pre-gasms in this week's Savage Love.
Iām Black and Queer and Iām Struggling
Plus a reminder that it's rude to take photographs of strangers in public in this week's Savage Love.
Iām a Lot More āEthically Non-Monogamousā Than My Wife
Plus a guy who just wants to get his cock sucked in this week's Savage Love.
I Ask My Constantly Naked Husband to Avoid Windows. He Says Thatās Body-Shaming.
Plus a whole mess o' quickie sex Qs in this week's Savage Love.
Are Straight Buddies Really Out There Sexting Each Other?
Or is that just a cheater's excuse? Find out in this week's Savage Love.
Iām a Small-Town Teacher. Where Can I Find Noncommittal Oral Pleasure?
A liberal teacher seeks a specific partner in this week's Savage Love.